Key Takeaways
- Bullying can be physical, verbal, relational, cyber, sexual, or prejudicial.
- It’s a common problem that can affect people of all ages, not just kids.
- Experiencing bullying can cause mental health problems like depression and anxiety.
When you think of bullying, the physically and verbally aggressive behavior that school children endure from their peers might be what immediately springs to mind. However, it’s important to recognize that bullying can come in many different forms. Just because it doesn’t involve physical or verbal aggression doesn’t mean that it doesn’t count as bullying. In fact, there are actually six different kinds of bullying: physical, verbal, relational, cyber, sexual, and prejudicial.
These types of bullying often overlap. Bullies frequently use more than one form to abuse a victim. Moreover, bullying isn’t limited to kids and teenagers. Adults can also be guilty of bullying.
What Exactly Is Bullying?
Bullying is defined as any intentional, repeated aggressive behavior directed by a perpetrator against a target in the same age group.
One of the most noteworthy components of bullying is an imbalance of power between the bully and the victim.
Sometimes, the power imbalance is obvious when, for example, a bigger, stronger kid bullies a weaker, smaller kid or when a group of people bullies a single individual. However, sometimes the power imbalance is more difficult to discern because it involves less obvious factors, such as differences in popularity, intelligence, or ability, or knowledge of the information the victim finds embarrassing.
6 Types of Bullying
Bullying falls into six categories, some of which are more obvious than others. They include:
- Physical bullying
- Verbal bullying
- Relational bullying
- Cyberbullying
- Sexual bullying
- Prejudicial bullying
Physical Bullying
Physical bullying is the most obvious type of bullying and what many people think of when they imagine this kind of aggression.
Physical bullying involves any assault on a person’s body, including hitting, kicking, tripping, or pushing. It can also extend to inappropriate hand gestures or stealing or breaking a victims’ belongings.
Physical bullying is perpetrated by an individual or group of individuals who are bigger or stronger than the individual being targeted.
If a physical altercation happens between two people of similar size and strength, it’s not considered physical bullying.
Studies have shown that boys are more likely to be involved in physical bullying than girls. For example, research has found that boys are more likely to be both the perpetrators and victims of physical bullying.
Some research suggests that such differences stem from gender differences in socialization. Boys are socialized to use direct aggression, whereas girls are socialized to express aggression indirectly.
Verbal Bullying
Verbal bullying involves using spoken or written words to insult or intimidate a victim. It includes name-calling, teasing, and even threats.
One study found that verbal bullying was the most common form of bullying. Boys experienced this type of bullying at a slightly higher rate than girls, and most were bullied by their own friends.
Verbal bullying isn’t always easy to recognize because it often takes place when authority figures aren’t around. Moreover, a bully can pass it off as good-natured ribbing between friends. As a result, it can be difficult for the victim to prove. Therefore, this form of bullying can become a long-term source of stress and anxiety.
Relational Bullying
Relational bullying, which is also referred to as relational aggression or social bullying, involves actions intended to harm a victim’s reputation or relationships. It can include embarrassing the victim in public, spreading rumors, purposely leaving them out of social situations, or ostracizing them from a group.
Unlike more overt types of bullying, it is especially sly and insidious because it involves social manipulation.
Relational bullying is often associated with so-called “mean girls.” However, while research has shown girls are more often the victims of relational bullying than boys, both boys are more likely to be perpetrators of this type of bullying.
On the other hand, studies suggest that girls who engage in relational bullying have worse adjustment problems, including issues maintaining fulfilling and positive relationships.
Relational bullying can lead to isolation, loneliness, depression, and social anxiety. Unfortunately, research indicates that teachers, school counselors, and other educational staff tend to feel relational bullying is less serious and have less empathy for victims of relational bullying than victims of physical and verbal bullying.
This may be because the severity of relational bullying is more challenging to detect. Physical and verbal bullying results in disciplinary action toward the perpetrator around 50% of the time, whereas this response only happens 10% of the time with relational bullying
Cyberbullying
Cyberbullying is bullying that happens via electronic devices like computers, smart phones, and tablets. It can take place over text messages, social media, apps, or online forums and involves posting or sending harmful content, including messages and photos, and sharing personal information that causes humiliation.
Research by the Cyberbullying Research Center shows that 15% of 9- to 12-year-olds and 37% of 13- to 17-year-olds have experienced cyberbullying at some point in their lives.
In-person bullying is still more prevalent than cyberbullying but cyberbullying is a growing problem. Not only are perpetrators of cyberbullying less likely to be caught, but the online nature of cyberbullying can also be especially damaging to victims.
People have their devices on them all day, every day, so if they’re being cyberbullied, they never get a break, even in their homes.
Similarly, targets of cyberbullying may be constantly reminded of the online bullying they’ve endured because, even if they block the cyberbully, others may see and share the evidence.
Sexual Bullying
Sexual bullying is online or in-person bullying that involves sexual comments or actions, including sexual jokes and name-calling, crude gestures, spreading sexual rumors, sending sexual photos or videos, and touching or grabbing someone without permission.
Sexual bullying and harassment are remarkably widespread. A 2019 study found that 81% of women and 43% of men experienced sexual harassment or assault at some point in their lifetime.
Meanwhile, sexting, sending or receiving sexually explicit messages or images between electronic devices, is becoming increasingly common.
Research shows that among kids between the ages of 11 and 17, 15% of them sent sexts and 27% received sexts; the prevalence of the behavior increases as adolescents age.
When sexts are sent without consent, such as when private nude photos or videos of an individual are widely shared among a peer group, it can lead to sexual bullying and even sexual assault.
Prejudicial Bullying
Prejudicial bullying involves online or in-person bullying based on the target’s race, ethnicity, religion, or sexual orientation. It is based on stereotypes and is often a result of the belief that some people deserve to be treated with less respect than others.
Though prejudicial bullying has been studied less than other types of bullying, research indicates that ethnic and sexual minorities are more likely to be bullied than their peers.
However, ethnic minorities that attend more ethnically diverse schools experience less bullying than those in schools that are more ethnically homogenous.
How Common Is Bullying?
Bullying is widespread and can negatively impact both bullying victims and the bullies themselves.
A 2019 survey by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) found that 19.5% of ninth through twelfth graders were bullied on school property in the 12 months prior to completing the questionnaire.
Moreover, a study by the World Health Organization (WHO) conducted in 2013 and 2014 in 42 countries in Europe and North America found that, on average, 14% of 11-year-old boys and 11% of 11-year-old girls were bullied at least twice in the previous two to three months.
Mental Health Effects of Bullying
People who are bullied can experience a plethora of short- and long-term problems, including depression and anxiety, social withdrawal, substance abuse, difficulties at school or work such as underachieving and poor attendance, and even suicide.
In addition, children who are targets of bullying may become victims or perpetrators of violence later in life. Meanwhile, those who bully others are more likely to get into fights and vandalize property, abuse drugs and alcohol, have criminal convictions in adulthood, and abuse their romantic partners and children.
Even people who simply observe bullying can experience issues, including mental health difficulties and increased substance use.
