Key Takeaways
- Step 12 teaches people in recovery to help others to stay sober.
- Helping others can remind you of why you started your recovery journey.
- Being of service to others can give you a sense of purpose and improve your recovery.
Step 12 of Alcoholics Anonymous’ 12-step program states: “Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to alcoholics and to practice these principles in all our affairs.”
Basically, this last step instructs its members to carry the message to others and put the principles of the program into practice in every area of their lives. For those in recovery programs, practicing Step 12 is simply “how it works,” as the founders of the fellowship discovered for themselves in those early days.
As the history of Alcoholics Anonymous indicates, it was working with others who were still suffering that kept Bill W. and Dr. Bob sober. The same principle is true for all members of 12-step groups: “To keep it you have to give it away.”
12 Steps Defined
According to Alcoholics Anonymous, the 12 steps are as follows:
- We admitted we were powerless over alcohol—that our lives had become unmanageable.
- Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.
- Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him.
- Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.
- Admitted to God, to ourselves and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.
- Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character
- Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.
- Made a list of persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all.
- Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.
- Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it.
- Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out.
- Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to alcoholics and to practice these principles in all our affairs.
Unpacking the 12th Step
In Al-Anon, the 12th step reads, “try to carry the message to others,” and in Alcoholics Anonymous, it says “to alcoholics.” But the principle is the same. In order to work all 12 of the steps, we must try to help others.
Carrying the message to others by sharing experience, strength, and hope reinforces the spiritual principle of the 12 steps in the person being 12th-stepped as well as the one doing the sharing.
The program would cease to exist if nobody were doing any 12th-step work. Without the service work of those who came before, no members would be here now.
But step 12 also calls for members to put the spiritual growth they have found to work—not only within the fellowship but in all aspects of their lives. It requires practicing these principles in all our affairs. This, too, is doing the 12th step “work” and makes the program work as one of attraction and not promotion.
Benefits of Step 12
Step 12 allows people who have worked the program to work with others who are still struggling, which benefits both the person in recovery as well as those who are still going through the program. Being of service to others can:
- Remind us of the early days of recovery (and why we’ve worked so hard to move past that phase)
- Keep us accountable and prevent us from becoming complacent in our recovery
- Give us a sense of purpose
- Enhance our fellowship with others
- Inspire someone else to stay on the sober path
- Help provide insight to someone else in recovery
- Allow us to become a trustworthy person for someone in recovery
Making It Work
Twelve-step work isn’t just going out to help the one who still suffers, but going to meetings and setting an example. Here are a few ways to work step 12 during an AA or Al-Anon meeting:
- Make coffee
- Speak up during comments
- Say “yes” when asked to do service work or speak at a meeting
- Offer to give a ride to those who otherwise would not go to a meeting
Follow-up is also an important part of a 12th-step call. Calling the person in a few days to see if they might want to go to a meeting with us shows them that we are for real. A word of warning: Remember to carry the message, not the person with a substance use disorder.
What This Means For You
As you go through the 12 steps, remember that addiction recovery is a lifelong journey that requires work and dedication. Working step 12 is a way to safeguard your own sobriety as you help others live a better, sober life one day at a time.
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Alcoholics Anonymous. Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions. 77th printing. Alcoholics Anonymous World Services; 2012.
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